“I Forgive Myself for Judging Myself As . . . .” Stupid, unreasonable, stubborn, pushy, fill in the blank. We all do it – we criticize ourselves and pass judgment on ourselves multiple times every day, half the time never noticing what we’re doing. It’s not our fault. Since the beginning of civilization (thousands… Continue reading How to HealYour Life: 15
Category: self-help
How to Heal Your Life: 10
Situations outside are what they are. Resolution occurs inside you. This is a tough one for most of us. We try to change the outer circumstances instead of looking inside for the solution. One thing I’ve learned is that my world is just that – my world. My perception, my interpretation, my creation. If I… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life: 10
How to Heal Your Life: 9
Getting To the Loving Is the Object There are many definitions for “love” in the dictionary from “passion” to “regard.” When we say we love something or someone we experience a wide range of feelings in terms of meaning, depending on our experience. Love is the most powerful energy in the universe. In fact, the… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life: 9
How to Heal Your Life: 8
Healing is the application of love to the part that hurts. Do you remember when you were little, falling down and hurting yourself? And do you remember someone soothing and comforting you until you felt better? Chances are, now that you are all grown up, you have soothed and comforted a child in the same… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life: 8
How to Heal Your Life: 5
Outer experience is a reflection of inner reality. This one is an in-your-face reality check for me, and probably for most of us. We are taught by society that if we’re not the victor, we’re the victim. And we’re powerless to change. We’ve been taught for so long that the answers are out there somewhere,… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life: 5
How to Heal Your Life: 3
Everyone has the potential, resources, and destiny to graduate. Have you ever worried about anything or anyone? What a silly question, right? We’ve all had lots of practice worrying about someone or something in our lives. It’s because we want answers, we want results, we want what’s best for ourselves and others, but we don’t… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life: 3
How to Heal Your Life: 2
The curriculum of life is gaining experience for learning and growing. Do you remember when you were in first grade learning to count? First you learned to count to 100 by 1s and then by fives and tens, then how to count by twos to 40, and how to add and subtract two-digit numbers. Your… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life: 2
How to Heal Your Life: 1
This is the second in a series of posts about spiritual principles I learned on my journey toward self-understanding. If you missed it, the first post, “How to Heal Your Life” lists the 15 principles this series is based on. This post addresses the first principle on the list. 1. Earth Is A School I… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life: 1
How to Heal Your Life
I haven’t posted for a long time because I’ve been rewriting my book, which has turned out to be a bigger project than I’d anticipated. But I miss writing for this blog, so I decided to squeeze blog posts into my schedule when I can. I love the subject for this post and thought I’d… Continue reading How to Heal Your Life
In A Hurry?
In America, we’re all about action, accomplishment, getting it done – and the faster the better. We are willing to drive ourselves mercilessly to get what we want, measure up, impress the boss, and be admired for our productivity. We accept pressure as a matter of course. Good news! This insanity is only societal… Continue reading In A Hurry?